OK I see where your heading Todd,
Here is my plan. On the hinged sway bar on both ends I am going to flatten the bar out perpendicular to the rail. Then drill a whole through it. On the hinged actuator bar side where the fixed rail is I will bring the linkage through the rail (already done) and bend it 90 degrees thread it and run it through the hole in the hinged sway bar and put a nut on it with loctite. it wont be tightened down it will allow the linkage to rotate in the whole, the nut just keeping it on. I will also do the same for the linkage to the hinged rail. Not I was simply going to drill a hole in the hinged rail and thread the linkage and then apply a nut on both sides and tighten down tight. But I see your point it will not like that as it will need to move with up and down the hinged rail as it moves.
I think a positive attachment is necessary to prevent fouls ups. And it has to move. So what about slotting the hinged rail and then adding some light brass strips on either side of the web with a hole drilled in them. Run the linkage through the holes in the thin brass and loosely but a not on either side. This would act as a slide mechanism. Even eliminating the thin brass slides may be OK allowing enough play in the linkage might work with an over sized hole in the web that is just small enough to not let the nuts pass through.
On the actuator bar side the movement is negligible and there is enough flex in the linkage and I will be useing a fairly stout sway bar that I don’t think it will effect that side. It may not even effect the hinged rail side. the linkage is a flexible wire and the sway bar will be stout music wire. The flex may be alright. I can always work in order from fixed, to a larger hole with play, to a slot with slides. In that progression I can go until it works without having to start over.
On a side note I played with a ruler and determined that at the actuator bar I have 6mm of travel, I then moved my ruler down the hinged rail measuring travel of the hinged rail to determine where it has 5mm of travel giving my self a mm of cushion. This will be my attachment point to the hinged rail. That makes the sway bar 43mm long. Using .055 music wire which is damn stiff I think will over come any tendency to flex over such a short distance.