Personally I think much of the misunderstanding of the U.S. has to do with the unabashed patriotism of heartland America. If I say that the U.S. is the best country in the world it doesn’t mean that I think we’re better than others but rather it displays love of country.
If I say that my mom was the best mom in the world who can argue? Conversely you can say with equal fervor that your mom was the best mom in the world and I couldn’t argue with that and wouldn’t. Love of country is much the same. Ideally everyone should believe that they live in the best country in the world. Unfortunately some live in countries ruled by despots but even then you will find a sizeable population expressing their loyalty.
Being patriotic doesn’t mean disdain for other countries and cultures. We love that which nurtures us and with which we are familiar while being suspicious and even fearful of strangers. This has been true since tribal times.
Exceptionalism is a natural function of national pride. Every country cheers at the presence of their own flag on the winner’s stand in the Olympics for example. This doesn’t mean a “smug sense of superiority”. Without a dream of greatness no nation can progress. A bland attitude of mediocrity leads to just that; mediocrity. A country doesn’t have to be the largest or the strongest or the richest to be great. It simply needs to provide access for the realization of people’s dreams and the respect for their traditions. This doesn’t happen all at once but needs to be built upon and constantly improved.
As to “empire”: If you read the history of the U.S. you will find that in virtually every war up to and including WWII that the U.S. was woefully unprepared. Prior to WWII the strength of our armed forces was rated below that of Portugal. Hardly the stance of an “evil empire”. It was so bad that when Gen. Stillwell (see the Stillwell Diaries) was sent on an inspection tour of the west coast to assess coastal defences he couldn’t find any. Aside from a few dozen coastal batteries we were virtually defenceless. Only the Navy stood in the way of invasion and the Pacific Fleet was in pretty sad shape after Pearl Harbor.
People now perhaps have trouble understanding how scary things were on the west coast of the U.S. during the first months of WWII. Even in the East U-boats were sinking ships within sight of our shores. We determined after the war that “never again” would we be caught unprepared. Additionally the advent of the nuclear age and trancontinental bombers and missles precluded having time to build forces “after the fact”.
Immediately after WWII we had a nuclear monopoly. Has any other “empire” in human history wielded such decisive power without using it to destroy their enemies? The U.S. used it as a deterrent against further aggression only. We traded our nuclear umbrella in exchange for other nations to limit their military and have paid most of the bills for that. Except for ex-Yugoslavia things have been pretty peaceful military-wise in Europe since 1945. The military violence has been behind the iron curtain and even the problems in Kosovo and vicinity were after the collapse of a communist country.
In conclusion: Mr. Phillips’ article didn’t offend me at all. A country doesn’t have to be perfect for you to love it. It is impossible for “all too imperfect humans” to have a perfect government. Too, any country that engages in relationships in the world will have disagreements and even find hatred in some circles. Yes, we have crooked politicians just like every other country in the world and yes, we make mistakes. But think for a minute what the world would have been like if the country with the nuclear monopoly post-WWII had been Russia or China or one of the Axis countries.