Nothing really to add. Just a reciprocal to Andre’s “WHY?”
Things happen without consideration of us. It just happens. Things sometimes happen to us because of what we do or don’t do. Other times we are the answer, not the problem or the solution. Sometimes your the pigeon or seagull (depending on your part of the world), sometimes your the statue.
This pursuit of happiness thing is way over rated. You can always answer things with “Sh*t how’d that happen?” or “Who would of thought that would happen?”
This is kind of like a Forrest Gump moment. Maybe its time to watch that movie, again.