I suppose it all must be a cultural thing, as was mentioned in an earlier post. Here in Eastern Pennsylvania, we enjoy some wicked friendly bantering. I did not realize how harsh our type of teasing was, until I went into the service and some of the more laid-back Southern boys called two of us out on our joking.
Maybe it’s just the Northeast Coast of the US, maybe it’s our strong German, Polish, Hungarian, Russian influences in this area.Best friends here tell each other regularly to “go $^@k themselves” and chuckle about it. (…and that’s what we say to people we like.) Whatever it is, I can understand how easily my banter can be taken personally.
I’ll try MY best to behave, as if I am in church and maybe the ultra-sensitive among you can lighten-up a bit.
Would that be fair?