New to the hobby?
This is experience speaking.
Changing out your couplers? Wait until you have your layout FULLY up and running. That’s with the track level, the curves not on two different angles, the turnouts operating and…everyone who likes to watch it run sees it doing so without your constant attention to derailed rolling stock. The converse is while you were building your layout, you changed out the mfg.'s couplers for something realistic. You made a decision to change those pesky, unattractive, non-realistic, absolutely reliable, hook 'n loop couplers for the KADEE realistic work-of-art couplers. Yes, they cost a buck, but, they look sooo good.
What’s the point? I did it. While I was building the rail line, I spent some time with the rolling stock sitting at the ready on my shelves and installed the KADEES. Not good. The KADEE brand couplers are just realistically fussy. They will dump a load of cars on a curve that has a slight bank that the hook 'n loops wouldn’t flinch. That hook just slides around on both connected cars safely avoiding every goof you made in the track work. The KADEES are much less facilitative.
Here’s an idea. Borrow some rolling stock equipped with the KADEE works of art and try them out on your layout. Do it first.
Welcome aboard!
Wendell