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How to address another poster

Hey, guys, you know me, respectiful, right? Well, most of the time. The rest of the time I’m, well, not always as nice as pie, but I try, I really do try. Same as most of us here, I’d opine.

Got a little problem I’d like to share with you - those who can be bothered to read this, that is.

It’s like this, see.

Some of us here have short names - H-J, for instance. We all know the rest of it , but we, and he, are all happy when we call him just H-J. He knows we are not being disrespectul in any way, after all, he himself calls himself that. Others use their real names, that’s good too, and some of us, like me, have our real names as headers, but call ourselves something else for sheer convenience, as I have had to do all my life, so far.

I get confused though, like any other simpleton, when I see a guy’s name - and I mean no direspect here, since I’m looking for information, not approbium - a guy’s name that begins with a single initial, followed by a proper name, and then his family name.

I just want to know how you address this person politely without either causing offence or making yourself look a total pillock.

Y’see, over here, I have only ever come across this twice before - T. Dan Smith [a union man, long dead] and L. Ron Hubbard [inventor of Scientology] - and I’ve never had cause to address either of them.

So, waddya do?

tac
www.ovgrs.org

I know of another example.

H Lee Riley.

“Hey You!”…works fer me…:wink:

Typically when one uses their middle name as their common name as in the cases above, it’s accepted to address them simply by their middle name. The first initial would be used in formal settings where one would likewise use a middle initial (J. Quincy Public or John Q. Public)

Later,

K

Tac, you may address me as ‘Sir’

I know a fellow by the name of L Dale Walter on another forum and I think everyone calls him Dale. I guess you could always ask the person with the name in question.

Jon.

Being a total nonentity I’m complimented when anyone simply acknowledges me!

I call you TAC… you have too many words in your name.

By the way, can you tell me what your name means, or how it came to be… I’ve always wondered…

GE

Richard Smith said:
Being a total nonentity I'm complimented when anyone simply acknowledges me!
OT, but worrisome, some.

Just to let you know that me and ig sat up all night last night waiting for the little lights to come on, but nuffin happened.

Are you away?

Besp

tac
www.ovgrs.org

My mother raised me to distrust men who used an initial first. T. Boone Pickens, J. Edgar Hoover.

That and pinky rings. She felt pinky rings and the first initial-middle name thing were both signs of dubious character, and alas I have inherited her prejudice

Some people do just like their middle name more and use that.
Now if I used my middle name I’d probably confuse everyone. It’s Stener. It’s Norwegian! Does add some international flavor!

My son’s legal name is James Matthew Radder. From the time he was a baby, he was called Matthew or Matt. He will sometimes use J. Matthew to avoid confusion, especially at school. His college will have none of that so now he is James. I wonder if he will respond if I call him Jimmy :smiley:

I. M. Confused

Hey YOU…usually works, especially when calling me to dinner, or when the whine is poured…

AH! I do hope you aren’t refering to me? I’d not be offended at all wither way.

W. Chas Ronolder IV

W. is William and that’s my Grandfather or was until last year when he passed around Thanksgiving at 100 years. The family called him Will. My father was called Bill and I became Charlie from a young age. When there were three Bills on my mothers side of the family too it was much easier when I was little.
It was explained to my teachers in school and they had no issue with it. College was no different. To this day the only folks who call me by my first name don’t know me or only do in an “official” capacity.

Chas

Doug Arnold said:
Some people do just like their middle name more and use that. Now if I used my middle name I'd probably confuse everyone. It's Stener. It's Norwegian! Does add some international flavor!
My retired NAF pal in Trondheim is also Norwegian - he spells HIS name Steinar.

tac
www.ovgrs.org

Tac-
My father’s name is L.D. Hanks. Translated: Louis Day Hanks. He went by L. Day. This was even true at an honors banquet held by the Los Angeles City Schools. He was honored as the outstanding teacher and was referenced as L. Day Hanks. At his memorial service L. Day was used.

I think the choice starts with the owner/user of their name. Once an oral introduction, then the choice for the respondent is obvious. If no introduction, use the name you see in print until told to use an alternative.

Hope this is helpful.

Wendell

Well, my cousin Sam’s name is not actually Sam, but Patrick. His nick-name of Sam comes from the name of my Welsh grandfather, with whom Sam’s mom spent many vacations in North Wales when she was a young girl. Sam’s son is actually called Samuel, again in homage to my grand-dad. Sam’s brother Alan and Sam himself [who you will remember is actually Patrick, are both named after me.

Clear?

thort so…

tac
www.ovgrs.org

then you have the guy like me with two first names. It was great in the Navy cus everything was first name last and last name first so I would go up and say George and before I could get the next word out I was getting yeld at.

So I would use Mr. last name then ask them how they would like to be addressed.

hope this helps

Geoffrey G. George :slight_smile:

Nobody else is named Wendell.
Well, er, there was one student twelve years ago in my class. His name was Wendell Hans.
Yessiree. That’s it. In my 40 years of teaching, and some 12,000 students, that’s the only Wendell.
Now, I’ll just bet Tac has a family member with that name.

Wendell

I knew a teacher named Wendell…he also served as vice principal