O.K., I admit I do not use Kadee couplers but I always see threads about re-drilling tiny mounting holes/shimming. Seems like a delicate process. Has anyone considered bonding them in place? Seems drilling fine holes in shim stock would be difficult. I use Methacrylate adhesive in my R/C airplane structures. If it can bond wing spars and hold up to major G-forces it should handle couplers. No doubt some down-side as there is the potential to “muck-up” the works if you use too much…and it is expensive (just a dab will do ya!). Probably need to clamp it while it sets.
At the very least you could use it to attach the shim and have a very solid drill platform. This stuff really bonds, I keep a tube in the shop at all times for all sorts of purposes. This stuff will bond any plastic to any material I have tried to date (aluminum, steel, other plastics, wood, etc).
http://www.ellsworth.com/display/productdetail.html?productid=1812
There are other manufacturers but I already had the applicators for the Ellsworth product (Hysol makes one as well).
…Mark