Matt,
Here are some pics I took doing conversions on some Big Hauler tank cars. This first photo is of the tank car with a Kadee 830 coupler and coupler box compared to a Kedee gauge.
This next pic is the same car with a Bachmann Spectrum coupler box with a Kadee 830 straight shank coupler installed. The Bachmann coupler box mounts to the exact same mounting points as the Kadee box. There is a slight height difference, but with the taller coupler face, track work would have to be pretty awful for coupler failures.
Here is a pic of the Kadee coupler box with a Bachmann straight sank coupler installed.
It is my understanding that during the development stages of the Spectrum series of product there were negotiations between Bachmann and Kadee to privide Kadee couplers with the Spectrum products. Somewhere along the way they parted company, leaving Bachmann somewhat committed to the Kadee design. This left Bachmann little choice but develop their own version of the coupler box and a coupler to match. The afore statements are based on my extrapolated interpretations of rumor collected from many places. I pieced these tid bits together and developed my opinion. The photos show the interchangeability.