I have always eliminated those tabs on the dozens of these locos i have converted. This is because i also lower the tender down by cutting and modifying the bolsters. looks so much better. Once lowered, have never had an issue with tipping or instability. Lithium batteries are lighter , which also helps. Finally, I have some very nice flat pack configuration batteries with a one year warranty rather than the typical 90 days that also assist with stability of the tender, but it has never really been any problem.
jonathan